Dating Advice For "Nice Guys" – Jordan Peterson
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September 20th, 2019 at 1:55 am
Hey guys,
Here is a link to the full Q&A: https://youtu.be/1EmrMTRj5jc
September 20th, 2019 at 2:25 am
How does one go about controlling shadow side when negative thoughts make me feel weak?
September 20th, 2019 at 2:44 am
Just thinking about "how to be for a female" shows you already doing something wrong. Have the "balls" to be yourself and you will be attractive to the right one and feel happier.
September 20th, 2019 at 3:19 am
Wait, is the premise of Fight Club very Jungian in nature?
September 20th, 2019 at 3:37 am
Here's my advice for dating to nice guys.
Don't be nice.
When we are nice we become a victim because women are emotionally void and they enjoy emotional sadism they enjoy games as a nice guy your likely to attract needy women that will drag you into the role of knight in shining amour you never get get save the damsel in distress and become the hero instead they leech your power recover from their darkness and misery only to turn into a full blown narcissist they will use you and throw you away.
Never ever show gratitude just them being with you do not be nice.
If your a nice guy..do not date you will get broken.
Instead learn to be kind and present and understanding although not to understanding.
If you love a woman make her work for you to show any sign of it because if your like a puppy they become bored.
They want to be played they want the risk of losing you be unavailable at time be indifferent on occasions and be blank to their moods if unwarranted if they are for real they will stick around if they are the ones that are head shot they will disappear and thats a very good trust me because that means they know you cant be sapped of your energy and used for that purpose.
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I'll say this again.
If your a nice guy.
Do not Date.
You will be smashed to pieces.
September 20th, 2019 at 4:08 am
Lie. They like it
September 20th, 2019 at 4:49 am
Basically girls don't like whimpering wimps.
September 20th, 2019 at 4:50 am
So you need to have the power to be crazy but control it
September 20th, 2019 at 5:22 am
Jesus legit destroyed a whole market because he disagreed with what they were doing there. And he purposefully constantly tested the faith of his disciples in life threatening ways. He is not a nice guy. The perfect man Lord Jesus is the ultimate man
September 20th, 2019 at 5:37 am
What a crock of shit
September 20th, 2019 at 6:14 am
The thing is that most so called 'nice guys' are just shitheads that think, that if they're polite it will get them girls, when in fact most of them are just scared of being rough or assertive and they will try their best to avoid conflict, but will stab you in the back, if there will be an opportunity. There is nothing worse than people that try to smile and avoid conflict all the time, because you can't find more salty lot than that.
September 20th, 2019 at 6:58 am
Can anyone provide me with study/science where Jordan talks from 0:21–0:30 where he mentions women are more erotically attracted to men who show dominance/aggression? Thanks
September 20th, 2019 at 7:00 am
All these dudes fall for the same shit time and time again. Following a narcissost blindly. Yes he has some wisdom..but in the end all you can be is you amd try to better yourself all the time. Be your own man and develop integrity. Stop following and trying to force something what you are not. Be strong because you can be. But dont fake some traits for thots. Nah..just have some goddamn integrity and have you…know you .
Also advice to mad bitches that want to get to know someone else without even knowing themselves. So many western middle class and up chicks want it all..but are actually void themselves. Domt fall for that.
I wish all good people.peace..and the passive toxic cunts..i wish them.hell.
Peace
September 20th, 2019 at 7:54 am
It's true. Jordan Peterson and I went to the club last week and he was an excellent wingman.
September 20th, 2019 at 7:56 am
What?
September 20th, 2019 at 8:47 am
Hmm, yeah people must not have read the passage in scripture where the first thing Jesus did after riding into Jerusalem was literally driving all the thieves out of the temple and trashing their stuff…with an improvised whip.
September 20th, 2019 at 9:25 am
I think people think way too much about morality when it comes to women's taste in men. I also think they have a very "black and white" view of women's taste in men (on the subject of nice guy vs bad boy).
Erase the morality concept, and think of it as value. Even straight men, value you other men who are strong, determined, and have a spine. It's really that simple. But it does get complicated because we don't think the same way women do.
But, to sort of contradict myself (for the sake of the good guy vs bad guy argument) in thinking the same way women do, ask yourself this. You're at a bar, a woman who you have no physical attraction to is hitting on you left and right, you nicely shut her down, then she says "But I'm a nice person", well, that's fine and dandy you're a nice person, but niceness does not equal automatic attraction. I feel this is the case with the majority of women. I know of many men who are genuinely nice people, but are physically and mentally strong, and have no problems attracting women.
September 20th, 2019 at 10:06 am
Women like confidence, and you don't need to be an asshole to be confident. But the thing is that usually assholes are confident, so that makes them atractive. They are also dominant and defiant of the norm. Well, that is just biology right there… Mate with the dominant and defiant male that other males respect and your offspring will survive.
In any case, I studied abroad once and I was so damn confident the first month, and even though I consider myself average looking (in some pics I look horrendous) I got so much freaking attention from women, it was crazy. As I was feeling confident I would hold everyone's eyes unknowingly and I found out how powerful that is, like they would talk to me normally, and after some seconds of holding their eyes firmly and confortably something would click, like all of a sudden they got flirty body language. I will always remember some looks that I got, those eyes were open books… I even got a gf who was so damn pleased to finally kiss me after 7 days of having met, like she had been wanting me so bad and she literally shouted: "Yes! Finally!". Then my neurotical mind stroke again and I started having problems with my confidence, sifting back and forth, conversations started getting awkward, I lost the confident eye game, looking away after some secs, and I got 0 freaking attention from women and my relationship went to shit after 2 months of going back and forth…
September 20th, 2019 at 10:44 am
wow… i'm gonna go out and crush ass tonight, thanks JP! that was some real confident and sexy stuff.
September 20th, 2019 at 11:03 am
Harmless SO THERE ISENT ADDING INSULT TO A WORLD FULL OF INJERY ANYONE CAN BE .. DANGERIOUS . . Try NOT being when everything WANTS YOU TO. TRY Going against all you feel.. THEN YOULL FIND A REAL HUGE CHALLENGE that why . Jesus THE CHRIST said to be hqrmleelss . Not NOT BOLD VIGELANT OR AGRESSIVE. He said harm LESS