How Men Know She’s The One
dating advice September 18th. 2019, 3:01amThink you may be dating The One? Steve has some easy tips to know whether or not you’re in love.
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The BIGGEST Mistake People Make In Dating
There is one thing that ruins more relationships than any others. And while the examples I give are from my own life, this is true for men and women, straight, gay, it doesn’t matter.
That thing is neediness. It often looks like obsessiveness, meaning you start imagining what it would be be boyfriend and girlfriend after one encounter, discussing kid names, giving larges gifts, talking to them about your future together in early dates, or when you spend all day thinking about why they didn’t get back to that text you sent. And it’s repulsive. And it’s the biggest thing that messes it up right after you meet someone you really like.
And I want to give you three simple things and one harder thing that you can do to fight neediness – because if you’ve got it, it can kill a relationship before it begins. Trust me, I’ve experienced it plenty of times. Keep in mind this specific advice is for early in a relationship
0:51 Trying to contact them every single day
2:37 Pleading when they can’t meet up
3:55 Changing your schedule to fit theirs
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September 18th, 2019 at 3:25 am
Ain't the one is what I discover faster than seeing that she is. But I do know what I'm looking for and need to see. Some have come close but they just fell apart in the emotion/temper and character dept. But also a key observation was how they act after we break up. One thing I look for is someone who is actually a good natured person. Crazy to want that huh.
September 18th, 2019 at 4:18 am
One phrase massive impact
No Hymen
No diamond
September 18th, 2019 at 4:46 am
Mommas meet the side pieces too
September 18th, 2019 at 5:26 am
Engaged after 2 weeks of dating. Still happily married after 4 years.
September 18th, 2019 at 6:24 am
When she's a debtless tattooless virgin who can cook.
September 18th, 2019 at 6:50 am
I think everybody is different. To each is own.
September 18th, 2019 at 7:38 am
If we like you still after busting our nuts, feel special
September 18th, 2019 at 8:30 am
Find a modern woman that can cook then get back to me
September 18th, 2019 at 9:04 am
A second
September 18th, 2019 at 9:19 am
My husband proposed to me after 2 months of dating. We were friends before though. We have now been married for 4 years and love each other more and more as the years pass. Just our experience
September 18th, 2019 at 10:11 am
They say 172 days. My honest question: is that 172 days of dating and been friends for awhile or since you first met?
September 18th, 2019 at 10:37 am
There is no such thing as a timetable in knowing if she's the one.
September 18th, 2019 at 11:25 am
Meeting the whole fam doesn’t mean anything now days. The whole family be on it and know he’s cheating lol or talking to someone else
September 18th, 2019 at 12:21 pm
One word. Swallows ?????? U kno, like the type of bird 🙂
September 18th, 2019 at 12:40 pm
The ice cream ? part ?????
September 18th, 2019 at 1:33 pm
When a black dude calls another the same……….. Its okay ?
Talk about double standards ?
September 18th, 2019 at 2:18 pm
Hey advice. I freaking love steve Harvey's. Hey kills me. Was that an add I saw? If so congrats. That's awesome
September 18th, 2019 at 3:03 pm
??? I've watched a lot about finding the one and I think this is the best.
September 18th, 2019 at 3:03 pm
What if they been together for 6 years . For the past years he said when everything ok , we can get married, then after one year he said that marriage is not to me . He said our relationship are better like this . Because we never know what’s gonna happens. But he always say we’re forever.
September 18th, 2019 at 3:43 pm
What a load of garbage. Men date women and basically stay with them until they feel that the woman is "too old" (even if she's much younger than they are) – then they basically toss their woman in the trash and get a younger one, then they toss her out too when she's "too old" and so on. It's got nothing to do with anything else. What a joke talking as if there's a woman out there who will be "the one" for some guy, when no matter what she is like he will toss her out once she passes a certain age, even if he's way older, uglier, fatter, etc than she is– no woman can be "the one" because any woman will get tossed out once she passes the "too old" age. Society just tells all of us that women are only worth anything if they're young and they don't exist a potential romantic/desirable partner after a certain age. Then women act as if men are some valuable gift if they are willing to look at them after a certain age, even if the guy is pure trash. What a joke. And this applies to EVERY WOMAN. Any woman you see – no matter how beautiful or sexy or whatever, once she passes a certain age she will get thrown in the trash like all the other women. Because patriarchy tells you that women are only worth anything if they're young but men can be important well into old age.
September 18th, 2019 at 4:02 pm
If you have any interest in anything long term, the idea that you consciously start counting days before contacting someone so you can give the impression it's a situation that took you that many days to bother to check on, when you feel you want to contact them, if even briefly after a date is shite. Be yourself, you'll find out sooner if you're suited. "You blew it" Because you showed interest?? You might just blow it by not showing interest!!?. And then again, if someone operates on the level suggested where they're only interested in someone who's not that bothered about them, What level of peer learnt heartless prescribed bull** are you getting in to. Where as soon as you need them they'll be gone short of dependancy on money or dual ownership of kids etc, Do you need that? There has to be better then that.
September 18th, 2019 at 4:17 pm
We now live in the I-World! Or what I call the selfish world ? of I
September 18th, 2019 at 4:22 pm
The best relationship is no relationship! I don’t need you and you don’t need me!
September 18th, 2019 at 4:28 pm
All this dating advice is common sense.
September 18th, 2019 at 4:49 pm
Dude your face looks deepfaked
September 18th, 2019 at 4:59 pm
Looking at you're biceps right and left, it looks like you need some advice
September 18th, 2019 at 5:53 pm
Just stopped talking to this girl and I could not figure out why… This definitely shed some light on things.
September 18th, 2019 at 6:50 pm
After 30s of your video it was clear you have Histrionic Personality Disorder, so it's make hard to listen what your saying when you flap your arms and do that crazy eyes thing…, but I wanna listen what you have to say, since just a title was a such a nonsense and at 2:46 you prove my thesis that you dont know a basic: there different types of personalities, introvert, extrovert and ambivert that you cannot put all in the same pile and since your disorder marks you as a hyper extrovert, you saying what to do only with extrovert types [and again is a not harassing someone is a advice, dear lord, if folks don't know that, they should not be walking without supervision because that's my friend is sign of psychosis]. I enjoy you video, from 3:13 when I mute it and just read your boddy language.
Btw, and I'm not saying that because some sort of bullying, please go visit specialist because BPD untreated leads to schizophrenia.
September 18th, 2019 at 7:26 pm
Very Helpful!
September 18th, 2019 at 7:41 pm
Being overly flexible can be a way to subtly manipulate. It presents an assumption that the two of you already mean enough to one another that together time at the next mutually available opportunity is imperative when absolutely nothing has indicated that it's imperative. Taking turns initiating plans should be the norm.
September 18th, 2019 at 8:37 pm
Thank you. This helped me I think. We'll see
September 18th, 2019 at 8:45 pm
Fine!
September 18th, 2019 at 9:23 pm
I think I’m in the middle of this rn. I asked her to study at the library and she didn’t end up going, then that night (last night) I didn’t ask her to hang. She knows I left the party and went home but then I left her Snapchat unopened. For all she knows I brought a girl back or had one come over. Or I went to bed. She won’t know. I’m trying to decide what to do next though
September 18th, 2019 at 10:22 pm
Research attachment types. It will explain this much better.
September 18th, 2019 at 11:13 pm
Yea sounds like she’s a waste of time lol “I’m busy” oh wait, his life isn’t revolving around me, wtf? “I’m free!!!!!!”
September 18th, 2019 at 11:22 pm
I do not Agree with everything he said. Something like 60% is correct
September 18th, 2019 at 11:44 pm
MAYBE? Btch must make herself available, maybe don't cut it. Maybe is you are an orbiter, fck that sht.
September 18th, 2019 at 11:59 pm
As soon as they “flake”, turn the tables, and refuse to hang out with them for at least a week. Make them want you more.
September 19th, 2019 at 12:40 am
Still pretty sure it's my strong cabbagy musk – but that's owls for you, Hoot, etc, ^oo^
September 19th, 2019 at 12:52 am
Man I dated someone at first where I was too needy. So the next time I dated someone made sure I had my own life and did not think if her as my only option. But she interpret me having my own plans as being disinterested. She wanted me to be there all the time and then broke up with me because I didn't spend enough time with her and didn't talk often enough. Women don't know what they want…