When To Have Sex With Him | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

dating advice admin September 21st. 2019, 11:23am

40 Responses to “When To Have Sex With Him | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs”

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  Lisa Davis Says:
  September 21st, 2019 at 11:39 am
  

  I set the standard when I first started having sex, that a man had to seriously date me for 3 months before I would even consider sex. At the time, it was considered a standard that in three months time, you'd know if you really liked the person on all levels and could see it being long term. Seriously dating had guidelines, they had to show up, we had to spend time and communicate and have time to really get to know each other. I never had an issue even back in my late teens nor 20's having men who had an issue waiting. One thing for sure, especially when your younger, once the sex is introduced, a lot of time is spent there and not as much in getting to know who each other is and that's so important. Plus, the build up and when the time was right, was absolutely a huge difference… I did break the rule once and yes it lasted for 5 years in a serious relationship but…I think as women who do feel more emotionally once we share ourselves…we have to learn to protect ourselves. I never allowed any of my boyfriends even after to sleep with me unless they stayed all night.

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  Vedana Vedana Says:
  September 21st, 2019 at 12:18 pm
  

  Thank you for your wisdom )

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  A Spiritual Being Says:
  September 21st, 2019 at 12:23 pm
  

  count how many times he begs for it……

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  Dogo Guy Says:
  September 21st, 2019 at 12:24 pm
  

  So what you're saying is fake an emotional connection to hump and dump. I never thought of that. This is awesome. Keep telling women this stuff its perfect. I gotta tell you, you are setting women up perfectly.

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  Amy DeLeon Says:
  September 21st, 2019 at 12:39 pm
  

  I agree with you – good explanation! Thanks

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  Vivian McLeod Says:
  September 21st, 2019 at 1:05 pm
  

  Nailed it!

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  Elizabeth Ann ferrario Says:
  September 21st, 2019 at 1:12 pm
  

  I met my hubby right out of the blue he was a police officer and I had just qualified as a registered nurse but I felt unfulfilled so I thought I would go and join the police and for one hour a day a police officer was required to do gate duty at the police station, it was an awful stormy day and he asked me where and what I was doing there but then added you can’t come in unless I can take you out tonight ! Well I was incensed don’t be so forward and went inside ! Coming out I thought gosh he is very handsome so I say ok but I was working until 9 pm but my gosh was our relationship hot but never had sex for about a week and to be honest I thought what’s wrong with me am I awful ugly !
  But after that we married in about five months and to this day I still fancy him like mad and dare I say 44 yrs later ! Yes an age but god I still love him as madly as that first day ! What I didn’t know he was going out with a beautiful model , and he passed her for me ! And no I never joined the police force but got a husband instead ! That young lady never knew what an amazingly wonderful man he is !, but there is someone out there for everyone and you never know when they will enter your life ! Just know in your heart there is !

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  Люблю Чупа-Чупс Says:
  September 21st, 2019 at 1:43 pm
  

  Побольше таких видео!!!! Очень интересно♥♥♥

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  mj mj Says:
  September 21st, 2019 at 1:52 pm
  

  Wow. I think this is true that's why I wonder why we didn't work although I did not slept with him but our sex drive is higher than our emotions.

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  sylamits Says:
  September 21st, 2019 at 2:30 pm
  

  Mat – I love listening to your advice! You are straight up, kind, funny & very informative!

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  zeuchehcuez Says:
  September 21st, 2019 at 3:12 pm
  

  Only have sex with your soulmate period (.) so as you wound not get hurt otherwise just #Masturbate

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  Stacy Steele Says:
  September 21st, 2019 at 4:05 pm
  

  "Sex is the celebration of the intimacy and commitment you've already created" –so true. By the time it finally happens, everything has been built and so strong the awkwardness will probably be at a low and the need at an all-time high. I think the hardest part will be parting…and that's what ultimately scares me. Best case is we meet and we don't click. Worst case is we do meet and we find there's absolutely no going back, which makes the choice for us.

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  bridget mooya Says:
  September 21st, 2019 at 4:17 pm
  

  Amen for being honest with young people of today who thinks sexy is the passport to marriage

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  Wairimu Joanne Says:
  September 21st, 2019 at 4:24 pm
  

  ?????

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  Arc Kocsog Says:
  September 21st, 2019 at 5:15 pm
  

  Once he declared that he loves me.

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  Jessica Fajardo Says:
  September 21st, 2019 at 5:32 pm
  

  When he said what do you want for yourself in a relationship, I was like “to be left alone.”
  What can this possibly mean? ???

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  Onyeka Nwankwo Says:
  September 21st, 2019 at 5:48 pm
  

  The truth is that I don't believe there is a law or formula to things like this
  Life is spontaneous
  Even the guy that acts like he is into you can dump you once he finally gets that sex or change as soon as he has had you
  Life and love happens differently to everyone
  We should stop looking for formulas to prevent mistakes??

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  Emokiriemi Abednego Says:
  September 21st, 2019 at 6:22 pm
  

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  Keithlynne Livioco Says:
  September 21st, 2019 at 6:34 pm
  

  Right time to have sex is after Marriage.

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  Restina Aprilianti Says:
  September 21st, 2019 at 7:25 pm
  

  Men only stay when they want to stay

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  Cool Media Says:
  September 21st, 2019 at 7:28 pm
  

  Still here in Sep 2019!

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  Rudy Sow Says:
  September 21st, 2019 at 8:15 pm
  

  If he is so good to be a man, then why he still divorce?

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  Adenwoody Says:
  September 21st, 2019 at 8:49 pm
  

  GG mon

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  Jazmin Rodriguez Says:
  September 21st, 2019 at 9:46 pm
  

  good points.

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  Maria Gandarilla Says:
  September 21st, 2019 at 10:21 pm
  

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  Please help

  With any amount

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  Na Na Says:
  September 21st, 2019 at 10:49 pm
  

  Steve is giving conflicting info. Here he is saying "get all the info upfront and set your bar high women" but when he was talking 30+ women he said "lower your standards…maybe date older men then you normally would"

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  September 21st, 2019 at 11:14 pm
  

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  One Life Says:
  September 21st, 2019 at 11:28 pm
  

  You make me wait 90 days I find a new woman on day 45…..

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  el habahi 80 Says:
  September 21st, 2019 at 11:36 pm
  

  Go MGTOW

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  Norman Hunter Says:
  September 21st, 2019 at 11:59 pm
  

  Thank you for sharing but I don't date I haven't dated in years I don't believe in dating thank you have a wonderful evening and God bless

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  African Girl Says:
  September 22nd, 2019 at 12:07 am
  

  lol, dating advice so much rules 2 it

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  QutieeS Lifestyle Says:
  September 22nd, 2019 at 12:41 am
  

  ?? Sept.2019

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  Mac Says:
  September 22nd, 2019 at 1:05 am
  

  Asking questions up front is perfect advice, but you should also be prepared to offer the same. And holding off with the physical is key, let him know you have a 3, 6, 12 month or marriage plan right away and you will lose all they guys who come to you for the wrong reason. Guys aren't stupid when it comes to seeing a quality woman, and she will always treat others with respect. Bottom line, you attract someone like yourself, respectful or disrespectful.

  Many women are attracted to the wrong types, and it really does not matter so much what you say to them, they will only learn from hard knocks.

  If a woman want's a quality guy, she should find ways to make obvious hints to the more reserved guys in the room. Learn to be comfortable doing this without saying what you want. Ask for advice, or something that starts a real conversation, and somehow bring up that you are single, and leave it at that. One, two, three hints max, avoid desperation. Guys generally hate making a fool of themselves, and no one likes rejection – a guy should not have to guess if you are single and looking… don't expect that he knows unless you are still in high school… he likely doesn't. If a guy is bold and easily comes up and talks to women, these are the types to be extra careful around, especially when you get older. It's really a minority of the guys who bounce around with the most women and create a bad name for all guys. Learn to see the difference, often they are pretty smooth talkers.

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  Sharon M Ndou Says:
  September 22nd, 2019 at 1:45 am
  

  September 2019?‍♀️

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  Myrna Davis Says:
  September 22nd, 2019 at 2:08 am
  

  If your standard is to wait until marriage then that is what he has to meet You're either valuable and worth it to him or you're not In the meantime I haven't lost anything

• 36

  MERICHA MARAIS Says:
  September 22nd, 2019 at 3:00 am
  

  Wat about a book for men" Act like a man think like a woman"

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  Amoodze sharonsmith Says:
  September 22nd, 2019 at 3:31 am
  

  Hey Steve I have a question pls
  What could probably make ur boyfriend to stop talkx to u if he finds out u suspect him of cheating. He deprive u from talkx to him by blocking u on all access??

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  Emokiriemi Abednego Says:
  September 22nd, 2019 at 3:58 am
  

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  Margarette Juliene Cadapan Says:
  September 22nd, 2019 at 4:11 am
  

  Nice words very helpful

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  shiela cagata Says:
  September 22nd, 2019 at 5:07 am
  

  HAHAHA SO TRUE!!!!!!

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